There are four aspects to your intentions. The saying goes, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions”, but, like most axioms, it is flawed. It should read: “The road to hell is paved with false intentions”. A true intent takes four things into consideration:
Your beliefs
Your reality
Your perceptions
Your thoughts
A good intention cannot be “true” [...]
So much of your circumstance depends on your perceptions. Everything we feel, see or sense is a product of our perceptions. How you view a situation determines the resolution of the situation. What we have a tough time with is the apparent difficulty of shifting long held perceptions that we have held maybe even for our entire lives. I say “apparent” because this too is a perception. It is only difficult because we perceive that it should be.
If you are having trouble with sudden change, such as being transferred to Guam to head up a new division on a moment’s notice, then congratulations! Now stop, look around, breathe deeply and look for the benefits of this change. It must seem overwhelming.
So you find yourself stuck in the middle of a transitory stage and feel as though you’ve been there for far too long. Perhaps you decided that you’d outgrown your job and decided to start a new career and are still in-between jobs. Or you’ve obtained your degree and can’t seem to hook a job in your field. Maybe it’s been decided that your marriage is irreparably damaged and you have been in the middle of a divorce for the last year. All of these situations can be draining. Here are some things to consider:
Rapid-fire change, also known as chaos, is a state of constant change. You are consistently in flux. This is a symptom of dissatisfaction, or dissatisfaction around you. This kind of chaos is destructive if unchecked. We all need a little stability and structure to stay healthy. A state of constant change is anything but structured and stable.
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It can be stressful and destabilizing to find yourself in new circumstances. Children have more problems in this area than adults, but “grown-ups” can have trouble here too. This [...]
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So you’re taking all the right steps, making all the right software upgrades. But have you rebooted? Many times, a reboot is needed for the changes to take effect. And when your systems come back up, it’s a whole new life.
If you aren’t happy with your life and want to change, it is difficult to know where to start. We believe that EVERYBODY deserves to be healthy, wealthy, and happy and that all those things are intricately connected. Over the coming days we will be posting articles that will allow you to figure out what needs to change in your life and how to do it.